Lapageria comes from the cool mountains of Chile. If you can grow Fuchsia or Clivia, you should be able to grow Lapageria. Try to protect it from frost, although it is said to tolerate down to the low 20s (-5°C) if given overhead protection. It mayalso be grown indoors, if the air isn't too dry. Give it something to twine itself around, like a trellis or wires.
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