http://blog.savemarriagecentral.com/w... Sexual Problems Sex is incredibly pleasurable, but it's also one of the top reasons for divorce. Some women use the physical part of the relationship as blackmail to manipulate their men. And many men will fall for this and be completely controlled by their wife so they can continue to have physical relations. It is almost never the other way around. The ways women and men view sex is sometimes 180 degrees apart.