It's true that many mistakes are made by rushing this life. Like the good ship's captain, steady as she goes, has a lot going for it and will present the opportunities you deserve. I'm doing this right now and it feels good taking my own advice!
"We could face each other over coffee cups in total silence" Haruki Murakami…
"Pain is inevitable, Suffering is optional." --Haruki Murakami
Haruki Murakami quote
A break down of the works of Murakami and a suggested reading order for his novels.
Under the same two moons - Haruki Murakami, 1Q84 http://www.haruki-murakami.com/post/93295229145/under-the-same-two-moons-haruki-murakami-1q84